I am very humbled and blessed and also very excited to announce that I recently did an interview with Girl Defined! I have also decided that I will be doing a giveaway of the Girl Defined Book!
How to enter:
1) Read the interview
2) DM me on @ProofOfHisLove (IG) the answer that impacted you the most and why
3) wait patiently!
"But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience." -Romans 8:25
Contest ends 11-26-16! I will announce the winner in my story and a post!
How to enter:
1) Read the interview
2) DM me on @ProofOfHisLove (IG) the answer that impacted you the most and why
3) wait patiently!
"But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience." -Romans 8:25
Contest ends 11-26-16! I will announce the winner in my story and a post!
The Interview
Bethany:
1) is there a time that God spoke to you? what came out of it?
A few years ago I was going through a very difficult relationship with a young man and desperately needed to hear form God. I had a lot of questions about the relationship and wasn’t sure if I should continue pursuing a relationship with him. I was stressed, overwhelmed and in desperate need of an answer from the Lord. I turned to my favorite Bible verse, Proverbs 3:5-6 which says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”
I decided to do just what that verse says. I trusted in the Lord with all my heart, I leaned not on my own understanding or feelings, I acknowledged God in all my ways and I trusted that He would direct my path. I was so amazed to see how clearly God answered my prayer. Although He didn’t speak to me in an audible voice, or write on the wall, or anything like that, He did make the decision clear. I was no longer supposed to continue the relationship. After I made that decision I had so much peace and just overwhelming relief. I was (and am) so grateful that I followed God’s leading and trust in His guidance.
2) what is your favorite way to spend time with God?
I love going to my room, sitting on my bed, and just spending time alone with God. I have a journal that I love to write out my prayers, thoughts and praises to God. I love to read through the Psalms and write out my favorite passages in my journal. I also love to listen to praise and worship music and write out the lyrics in my journal. Being alone in my bedroom with my journal and Bible in hand is my favorite way to spend time with God.
3) what is the best way to overcome doubt?
The best way to overcome doubt is to combat it with truth. Doubt often creeps in quietly and ends up camping out in your brain when you least expect it. As soon as you realize you are struggling with doubt, stop, pick up the Bible and remind yourself of truth. Don’t allow doubt to destroy you. If you are feeling unloved and unworthy, remind yourself of what God did for you and what He has to say about you (Psalm 139:13-14). Always combat doubt with truth. Don’t let doubt camp out in your mind. Take it to Scripture and combat it with truth.
4) how do you deal with drama?
Back in high school there were certain girls that were known by their drama. They were jealous, flirty and just liked to stir the pot. They always seemed to have reason to create drama. Honestly, I chose not to be their good friend. I didn’t want to be a part of the drama and I didn’t want to get sucked into it. I would really encourage girls to avoid the drama queens. Don’t be their besties. Be kind and show Christ like love, but don’t make them your closest friends. There is a saying that says, “show me your two best friends today and I will show you who you will be tomorrow.” Choose wisely and make sure those closest to you will push you towards Christ.
5) what is some advice you have for a single teenage girl in a society that highly supports dating?
We live in a culture that is obsessed with guys, romance and having a boyfriend. So often our “worth” as girls is tied directly to our relationship status. We as christian girls need to take a step back and remember that our worth has nothing to do with guys and everything to do with who Christ says we are. We don’t need a boyfriend to be valuable. We are valuable because Christ loves us and He gives us value.
Don’t feel pressured to date because everyone else is doing it. Take a step back and ask yourself what the purpose of dating is. How will this help you accomplish your goals? How will this encourage you towards Christ? Is this the best timing? What temptations will arise because of this? Be wise and be willing to ask yourself the tough questions.
Kristen:
1) what is something God has helped you with in the past?
Back in high school I dreamed of meeting and marrying my true love. I wondered who he would be and how I would meet him. One day I met the man of my dreams. We began a relationship and we have now been married for over 5 years.
I never could have anticipated what God had in store for me. I never even considered the idea that I would struggle to get pregnant and end up with two miscarriages. I had a glittery view of my life as a married woman and imagined children would easily come for me. God had/has a different plan. I have had to surrender my desire for children to God over and over again. I’ve had to put my trust in Him to the test and believe that He truly does know what’s best. I’ve had to give up my dreams of a perfect little family and choose to serve God in the way He see’s best. It hasn’t been easy, but God has been faithful. He has given me so much peace during the past few years. I am continually learning to trust in Him.
2) what is your favorite book of the bible and why?
I absolutely love the book of Ephesians. It’s filled with tons of practical application on how to live and how to honor God. I’ve read it multiple times and always find that there is something new for me to apply to my life. I highly recommend it!
3) what is the best way to keep God in the center of a relationship/friendship?
I have to be so intentional about keeping God in the center of my friendships. I’ve learned that I can’t depend on other people to keep God at the center, I have to lead in this way. I really encourage you to make sure that you take the lead in this area. Suggest doing a Bible study together, memorizing verses, joining a small group, or, just sharing how God is working in your life. Take the lead and initiate the spiritual side of your friendships.
4) what is your favorite way to spend time with God?
If I don’t get my time in with God in the morning, I often don’t get it done at all. I’ve really tried to make my morning quiet time a huge priority. Sitting on my couch, snuggled in a warm blanket, dog snuggled with me, and my Bible in my lap is the best. Oh, and coffee. Lot’s and lot’s of coffee to help keep my eyes open.
Finding the best time, place and setting helps so much. Find a cozy spot, pick the best time (when can you be most consistent) and just make it happen. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it.
5) what's some advice you have for a teenage girl in a relationship?
I’m twenty-nine years old. I can’t believe it. I feel like I was a teenager yesterday. Time truly does fly. I really encourage you to get serious about growing in your character. Don’t wait until you’re my age to start growing. I really encourage you to make a big effort to start growing now. Pick up a good book, start listening to christian podcasts, find a mentor and just start growing.
1) is there a time that God spoke to you? what came out of it?
A few years ago I was going through a very difficult relationship with a young man and desperately needed to hear form God. I had a lot of questions about the relationship and wasn’t sure if I should continue pursuing a relationship with him. I was stressed, overwhelmed and in desperate need of an answer from the Lord. I turned to my favorite Bible verse, Proverbs 3:5-6 which says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”
I decided to do just what that verse says. I trusted in the Lord with all my heart, I leaned not on my own understanding or feelings, I acknowledged God in all my ways and I trusted that He would direct my path. I was so amazed to see how clearly God answered my prayer. Although He didn’t speak to me in an audible voice, or write on the wall, or anything like that, He did make the decision clear. I was no longer supposed to continue the relationship. After I made that decision I had so much peace and just overwhelming relief. I was (and am) so grateful that I followed God’s leading and trust in His guidance.
2) what is your favorite way to spend time with God?
I love going to my room, sitting on my bed, and just spending time alone with God. I have a journal that I love to write out my prayers, thoughts and praises to God. I love to read through the Psalms and write out my favorite passages in my journal. I also love to listen to praise and worship music and write out the lyrics in my journal. Being alone in my bedroom with my journal and Bible in hand is my favorite way to spend time with God.
3) what is the best way to overcome doubt?
The best way to overcome doubt is to combat it with truth. Doubt often creeps in quietly and ends up camping out in your brain when you least expect it. As soon as you realize you are struggling with doubt, stop, pick up the Bible and remind yourself of truth. Don’t allow doubt to destroy you. If you are feeling unloved and unworthy, remind yourself of what God did for you and what He has to say about you (Psalm 139:13-14). Always combat doubt with truth. Don’t let doubt camp out in your mind. Take it to Scripture and combat it with truth.
4) how do you deal with drama?
Back in high school there were certain girls that were known by their drama. They were jealous, flirty and just liked to stir the pot. They always seemed to have reason to create drama. Honestly, I chose not to be their good friend. I didn’t want to be a part of the drama and I didn’t want to get sucked into it. I would really encourage girls to avoid the drama queens. Don’t be their besties. Be kind and show Christ like love, but don’t make them your closest friends. There is a saying that says, “show me your two best friends today and I will show you who you will be tomorrow.” Choose wisely and make sure those closest to you will push you towards Christ.
5) what is some advice you have for a single teenage girl in a society that highly supports dating?
We live in a culture that is obsessed with guys, romance and having a boyfriend. So often our “worth” as girls is tied directly to our relationship status. We as christian girls need to take a step back and remember that our worth has nothing to do with guys and everything to do with who Christ says we are. We don’t need a boyfriend to be valuable. We are valuable because Christ loves us and He gives us value.
Don’t feel pressured to date because everyone else is doing it. Take a step back and ask yourself what the purpose of dating is. How will this help you accomplish your goals? How will this encourage you towards Christ? Is this the best timing? What temptations will arise because of this? Be wise and be willing to ask yourself the tough questions.
Kristen:
1) what is something God has helped you with in the past?
Back in high school I dreamed of meeting and marrying my true love. I wondered who he would be and how I would meet him. One day I met the man of my dreams. We began a relationship and we have now been married for over 5 years.
I never could have anticipated what God had in store for me. I never even considered the idea that I would struggle to get pregnant and end up with two miscarriages. I had a glittery view of my life as a married woman and imagined children would easily come for me. God had/has a different plan. I have had to surrender my desire for children to God over and over again. I’ve had to put my trust in Him to the test and believe that He truly does know what’s best. I’ve had to give up my dreams of a perfect little family and choose to serve God in the way He see’s best. It hasn’t been easy, but God has been faithful. He has given me so much peace during the past few years. I am continually learning to trust in Him.
2) what is your favorite book of the bible and why?
I absolutely love the book of Ephesians. It’s filled with tons of practical application on how to live and how to honor God. I’ve read it multiple times and always find that there is something new for me to apply to my life. I highly recommend it!
3) what is the best way to keep God in the center of a relationship/friendship?
I have to be so intentional about keeping God in the center of my friendships. I’ve learned that I can’t depend on other people to keep God at the center, I have to lead in this way. I really encourage you to make sure that you take the lead in this area. Suggest doing a Bible study together, memorizing verses, joining a small group, or, just sharing how God is working in your life. Take the lead and initiate the spiritual side of your friendships.
4) what is your favorite way to spend time with God?
If I don’t get my time in with God in the morning, I often don’t get it done at all. I’ve really tried to make my morning quiet time a huge priority. Sitting on my couch, snuggled in a warm blanket, dog snuggled with me, and my Bible in my lap is the best. Oh, and coffee. Lot’s and lot’s of coffee to help keep my eyes open.
Finding the best time, place and setting helps so much. Find a cozy spot, pick the best time (when can you be most consistent) and just make it happen. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it.
5) what's some advice you have for a teenage girl in a relationship?
I’m twenty-nine years old. I can’t believe it. I feel like I was a teenager yesterday. Time truly does fly. I really encourage you to get serious about growing in your character. Don’t wait until you’re my age to start growing. I really encourage you to make a big effort to start growing now. Pick up a good book, start listening to christian podcasts, find a mentor and just start growing.